What to do if you're unable to love her?!

Hi girls. I'm new here and I thought why not starting a subject that i myself am experiencing .. -to know u all better and in the mean time to hopefully find a way to make it easier for me to 'love her more'- if I can say!
I just want to know how would u handle it if you've a wonderful young lady who's drowning for you aaall the way, who's ready to do anything for u, who loves you deeply waiting for nothing in return but you loving her back as it should be.. but you just seem not to give it to her. & I don't know what the hell is stopping me from being all hers as she's mine.
Anyone who's interested in talking about this. Or who has ever been in this situation.. just let us all know what was it like

Hey there and welcome on board. This forum has known better days, so excuse its radio silence!

According to your words, you say that you dont know what's stopping you from having the same feelings for her right?
Because before reading this part I thought about asking you if you're not still attached to some other story or still recovering from something else that might step in the way.
Anyhow, as I experienced the same thing, Im not sure you want to force the feeling even if you can.
It's either there or not. Unless you wanna give it a try and free your mind from the overthinking you're going through..again this is what I think, it still depends on you.
Just please, dont blame yourself nor get her even more attached. Do what's right for you without being unfair to her..
Good luck!

Well .. it's not that I'm still recovering but I must say I had a pretty rough experience with a girl. She was my first real love. And now we're only friends and we barely talk.. but it's been years now, I mean I don't see why it'd be the issue that's been stopping me from opening up to other hearts .. 

I swear I've been trying to just share my love with my current gf and I just couldn't and I still can't .. The worst part is that we're still together for almost a year now.. I know it sounds really weird and unusual. I tried so many times to end things between us but she just wouldn't give up on us, I tend to find every reason why we shouldn't be together while she does the exact opposite. We broke up not even once or twice .. but she keeps coming back. And it hurts so bad to have someone like this and you can't give them what they at least deserve from u. 
I just don't have a clue why does she even love me .. you know .. I do nothing the right way, I mean I always make shit out of everything when it comes to our relationship ..

If you don't reciprocate her feelings, it's not your fault.
I'd say, please do her a favor and take a firm decision to leave. Do not accept her back, because you'll only hurt her more, when you get really fed up and/or when you meet someone else you're interested in.
You already stated that you've been trying for a year; so just quit dragging this any further. It's not serving justice to either of you.

tell her that you dont feel the same way as she does ,,life is too short profite on it and try to be with someone that you love

je sais pas 
je peux pas rester avec quelqu’un ki m'aime pas comme je l'aime